Stress is one of those things that just seems to creep up on you. You know it's coming, in fact, you often predict that something is going to "stress you out."
So why then do we allow ourselves to become totally stressed out? Especially during the holidays when we need to get so much done!
Most adults know that the holidays can cause total chaos in our lives and turn into a stressful occasions if we're not careful. And the build-up of all this stress usually begins in the weeks and days preceding Thanksgiving.
Stressors are not just the negative events in our lives. Everything that happens, even those things that give up cause to celebrate are things that add to our overall accumulation of stress. Anything that impacts the body and mind, both negatively and positively, exerts stress on both our mind and our body. It's just a part of life.
But, during certain times in our lives, such as the planning for holidays like Thanksgiving, Chanukah, and Christmas, we are bombarded on an almost daily basis with little stressors. We seem to have no control over the situations and events that suddenly begin to snowball during the month of November.
What we can control is ourselves, our bodies and, our minds. The better we are able to cope with the stress, the less it will effect our overall well being.
So this year, take care of yourself and use these 5 tips for keeping yourself fit, both physically and emotionally, to help you better cope with the stress during Thanksgiving and, into the remainder of the holiday season.
Stress Free Holiday Tip #1: Keep Fit ~ If you usually visit the gym, make a special effort to continue to hit the gym as often as possible. The holidays are a stressful time and everyone is rushing around in a flurry of commotion. Stop and make time to stay fit. Even if you can only work in a 30-minute workout at home, two or three times a week, that’s better than nothing. You can work out a lot of your frustrations in a single 30-minute workout.
Stress Free Holiday Tip #2: Stay Healthy ~ Focus on your health during this holiday season and it will probably make more of a difference than you could ever imagine. Pay attention to what you eat. Stay away from junk food and stop nibbling throughout the day. It’s hard not to taste-test your dishes, but remember that every bite adds up to pounds and inches. And make it a point to get plenty of rest. Give your body, as well as your mind, an opportunity to shut down and replenish itself.
Stress Free Holiday Tip #3: Stay Calm ~ When you feel anxiety rising, take a deep breathe and hold it in for a ten count. Slowly release your breathe, then take in another deep breath. Repeat this simple exercise three or four times, until you feel calm again. Remind yourself that you are only one person. You can’t do everything all the time for everyone, everywhere at once. Listen to some music. Practice mental imagery. Bring yourself back to your center. If you need help, ask for it. Do whatever it takes to keep yourself in a calm state of mind.
Stress Free Holiday Tip #4: Stay Happy ~ When you feel yourself getting stressed out to the max,
it is difficult, to say the least, to stay positive and relaxed. If you are stressed and unhappy, everyone around you will pick up your negative energy. Negative energy feeds off negative energy. Follow the activity above for staying calm. Listen to some of your favorite "happy" music. Bring your mind around to thoughts that make you happy, then smile. Sometimes smiling, even when you don’t feel like smiling, will lighten your mental load. Give it a try. Smile and be happy and watch what happens to those around you. A smile is contagious.
Stress Free Holiday Tip #5: Keep It Slow And Steady ~ We often tend to overload ourselves during the holidays. We promise to bake cupcakes for school, cook dinner for all the family, volunteer at the shelter and buy gifts for everyone we’ve ever known, etc. etc. etc. Slow it down. There really is no need to do so much. You can not do it all and do it well. But you already know that. Talk about stress! Pick and chose what is important, set some priorities, and don't take on another project until you feel you can handle it. Make a list and cross things off as you accomplish them. Reward yourself. Remember, you will accomplish absolutely nothing at all if you allow yourself to become overwhelmed. Yes, it’s great to give, but do it within reason and leave plenty of time for yourself.
Through it all, try to remember what the holiday season is all about. Take time for yourself and relax and, enjoy this very special time of year.
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